Stop, Start, Pause to Reflect

I think a lot about life and the moments I treasure.

Perhaps I could tell people more about the amazing joys and triumphs I’ve experienced this year and during previous years when I started escorting, but I enjoy holding personal experiences very close to my heart. Having said this, those who know just know.

Last year was such a tumultuous one, that I was ready for a peaceful one this time around. It has had a few bumps, but I’m grateful for the most part, for all life brings.

Meeting up with a friend yesterday, she mentioned that she would never do this line of work simply because of the men she’s dealt with at a younger age. We talked about professional accomplishments, jobs we had had, passions we perhaps didn’t get the time to pursue.

I don’t take offence at people saying stuff like ‘I could never do that’ preferring it to ‘I could be successful at it if I did it’

Having done iterations of Sex Work since 2018 or so, I can say that this kind of work has reinforced my power in the opposite way that society believes; in fact without having my business, I would not have levelled up in my civilian career, completely paid off hecs debt, carved out a peaceful life for myself, supported family and friends and had the heart to be reflective and grateful.